Comment Policy
Fortunately, those that read my blog regularly and leave comments are always nice. So, I don’t have to begin my comment policy for them with Rule: 1 which is:
Be Nice.
But, just on the off chance that someone is trolling the Internet looking for places to stir up trouble, then let me state Rule:1 for them:
Be Nice.
Second, and the most important, I don’t like spam. Like so many other bloggers I have a plug-in which catches 99% of all spam that comes this way. However, every now and then one sneaks through and spams me with comments in order to plant links. I delete them. I always delete them. I will continue to always delete them.
There are a few niche’ bloggers out there who also surf the net for sites to troll and link back to. Having learned a little bit about niche’ blogging and the power of linking to other blogs to promote your own blog in the search engines, I’m wise to your tactics. I don’t like that either.
Please be advised that if you do this at my blog, I will disable all of the links that you spam my site with and leave your comment in tact, provided you have followed Rule:1.
If the problem persists, I will blacklist your IP address to stop you from accessing my blog permanently.
Other than these two rules, I welcome all questions and comments. Please feel free to comment as often as you wish and interact with other readers as well.
Magnolia
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Love this site! I feel so much better knowing there are other men out there like me going through this with their wives. We’ve been married 18 years and in the last year or two my best friend has drifted and turned into someone that I am not very familiar with at times. I think she is in denial a bit but open to checking into perimenopause. Last year we were living seperate in the same house and both had divorce papers drawn up. I didn’t want it and only used it as a scare tactic as nothing else would work. Yes I would have gone through with it only bacause that is what she kept saying she wanted yet refused to “crap or get off the pot”. I was not in a good place emotionally and did not know what was fully going on. All the seperate traveling…Facebooking highschool and college men and women, 3 tattoos in a couple years, thongs (which I love in normal situations) hair, nails, tanning money being spent was significant and then motorcycle lessons and a bike. All this as she turned 40. The year prior, night sweats set in hard and she would lose sleep or stay too busy volunteering and burning herself out looking for satisfactions in most everything else but her family. This is NOT the girl I married. It starter 18 months ago with a sudden “I don’t know if I want to be a blonde or a redhead, married or single, I’m just not happy”. It came out that I am too controlling and she doesn’t know if she can cope. She is right, I was. I believe perimenopause amplifies “real” problems. I don’t blame her hormones for that but this by no means was a deal breaker. I asked for forgivness (we’re both solid Christians) but she was not committed to it. I set out to change the things I needed to about myself and find out how I can serve her though she’s unwilling to communicate with me or all of her old friends who she cut herself off from as well. Thanks for all the info here…I will be checking back often! Ken